Buying or Selling a Home After 60: Why the Right Agent Meets You Where You Are
By David Stephens, Broker, REALTOR® | NextHome Mountain Horizons 149 Weaver Blvd #117, Weaverville, NC 28787 | (828) 335-6910 | BrokerDavid.com
Here's something that surprises a lot of people: Baby Boomers are the single largest group of home buyers and sellers in America right now. According to the National Association of REALTORS® 2025 Generational Trends Report, adults ages 60 to 78 made up 42% of all home buyers and 53% of all sellers — the biggest share of any generation.
So if you're in your 60s, 70s, or beyond and you're thinking about making a move, let me say this clearly: you are not behind the times, and you are not alone. You are driving the market. I work with many buyers and sellers this year in their 60s, 70s, and 80s.
What you deserve is an agent who understands that a great real estate experience isn't one-size-fits-all — and who will meet you exactly where you are.
Do I Need a "Tech-Savvy" Agent, or a Patient One?
You don't have to choose.
Let me clear up a myth first: plenty of my clients over 60 are more comfortable with technology than their grandkids give them credit for. They e-sign, they video chat, they run circles around younger buyers on a spreadsheet. If that's you, wonderful — we'll move at the pace of your comfort and never slow down on your account.
But some folks genuinely prefer to do things a different way. Maybe you'd rather talk on the phone than trade a dozen text messages. Maybe you want to read a contract on paper, at your kitchen table, with a cup of coffee, before you sign a single line. Maybe the words "it's in your inbox" make you want to throw the laptop across the room.
That's not a shortcoming. That's a preference — and a completely reasonable one. My job is to adapt to you, not to make you adapt to me.
What Does "Meeting You Where You Are" Actually Look Like?
It's easy to say and harder to do. Here's what it means in practice when you work with me:
I'll pick up the phone. If you'd rather talk than type, we talk–I prefer that anyway, because so much gets lost in text messages. I'll walk you through every step out loud, answer every question, and never make you feel rushed or foolish for asking. There are no dumb questions in a transaction this important.
I'll bring documents to you. If signing electronically isn't your thing, I'll deliver paperwork in person or by mail, wait while you review it, answer anything that comes up, and carry it back where it needs to go. Buying or selling a home is one of the biggest financial decisions of your life. You should be able to hold the papers in your hands if that's what makes you comfortable.
I'll explain the "why," not just the "what." A good guide doesn't just tell you where to sign — they help you understand what you're signing and why it matters. You'll never feel like you're being hurried through something you don't fully understand.
I'll go at your pace. Some transactions move fast. But the timeline should serve you, not stress you. We'll move deliberately, double-check the details, and make sure you feel confident at every stage.
Learning to Sign Electronically — If and When You Want To
Here's where I want to offer something extra.
A lot of real estate today runs through a platform called Dotloop, DocuSign, SkySlope and more— these are systems that lets you review and sign documents electronically, from a computer or right on your phone. When it works smoothly, it's genuinely convenient. You can sign a document from your recliner in about two minutes.
The problem is that nobody ever taught most people how to use it. They just send you a link and expect you to figure it out.
So I'm doing something about that. I'm creating a series of simple, plain-English video tutorials that walk you through the whole thing, step by step:
- How to open a document when I send it to you
- How to sign on your computer
- How to sign right on your phone or tablet
- What each button actually does — and what to do if you get stuck
No jargon. No assumptions. Just clear, patient instruction you can pause, rewind, and rewatch as many times as you need. And here's the important part: these videos are optional. If you'd rather I bring the papers to your door, we'll do that instead. The videos are there for folks who want to learn the digital way and just need someone to show them how — without making them feel rushed or talked down to.
Learning something new should feel empowering, not embarrassing. That's the whole idea.
Why This Matters More Than You Might Think
When you're selling a home you've lived in for 20 or 30 years, or buying what may be your last home — the place where you'll be closer to family, or finally enjoy retirement, or downsize to something easier to manage — the how of the experience matters just as much as the outcome.
You deserve to feel respected. You deserve to understand every step. You deserve an agent who sees patience as part of the service, not an inconvenience.
Real estate can feel like it's moving faster than ever, wrapped in apps and portals and acronyms. My commitment is to make sure none of that ever leaves you feeling lost. Whether you want to sign with your thumb on a phone screen or with a pen at your kitchen table, we'll do it your way.
Thinking About a Move?
If you're a homeowner or buyer in the Weaverville, Asheville, Marshall, Mars Hill, or greater Western North Carolina area, and you want an agent who will be a genuine, patient guide through the whole process, I'd be glad to talk. Call me anytime — yes, actually call. I'd love to hear from you.
David Stephens, Broker, REALTOR® NextHome Mountain Horizons 149 Weaver Blvd #117, Weaverville, NC 28787 (828) 335-6910 BrokerDavid.com
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Disclaimer: This post is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended as financial, legal, or individualized real estate advice. Every transaction is different. Please consult a licensed real estate professional for guidance specific to your situation.
Sources: National Association of REALTORS®, 2025 Home Buyers and Sellers Generational Trends Report (nar.realtor).
